How to Progress through Life

I think, one of the most common questions people ask high achievers is, “how have they progressed in their carrier and what advice will they give to people who are stuck at the same place in their lives”?

Have you ever thought that there are hundreds and hundreds of professionals in every field but out of all, only 1 or 2 are remembered? These 1 or 2 highly renowned skilled professionals are those who worked hard and sacrificed everything. I mean everything.

Luckily I happen to be friends with one such person. He has such a charismatic personality and a positive attitude that he could motivate anyone to change a life. The other day, I happen to have been in a discussion with him, and this time I had a different reason to meet him.

I wanted to share his secrets with you guys. I know all of you have been curious about me but the truth behind my success is his motivation. He helped me change my life and here is how I did it. I promise you that I will not complicate things for you and will keep them simple for you to understand easily.

I know, all of you have so many questions and that’s what I like the most. A question like, how did I make up my mind to do something and achieve my target, why do others fail when I successfully achieve my goal, I will answer all of your questions. Let’s dig in and see how things happen.

Here is the first thing you need to do to be successful:

None of the things in this article would work for you unless you have a goal-oriented mindset. Well let’s see what the second thing you need to do is:

Unlike many, I was also stuck in the same place for many years before I realized that I have to realize the fact that I am not enjoying anything. This thought helped me decide that I will switch my job and start doing what I wanted to do which was following my passion to talk and write and become an influencer.

It wasn’t easy. The change was scary. It will always be. But at the same time, I knew I had to face my fears and that my dreams are on the other side of fear. It was a choice I had to make. Either there was a comfortable and relaxed life but unfulfilled life or an uncomfortable, hardworking life full of contempt.

Being an influencer, I had to learn some new things such as

After years of learning now I know that personality is far more important than clothes. Looks matter, they do and I am not against designer clothes. But understand what I am trying to tell you here. Fancy, designer clothes will bring confidence in you to speak, but these clothes will never help you convince or impress people with your words. It will always be your personality and the way you do what you do.

So to be a better person with a confined personality, here is what you need to do:

To end it all, you can either live your stagnant life and continue complaining or you can move, work hard, sweat a lot, and be fulfilled.

Having this feeling of contempt will never be easy, it will be very difficult, but it will make you happy. I will leave the rest to you to decide for your life.



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Ahmad Zubair

By profession I am a technical fraud analyst, by passion I am …. still searching.